I drove for miles and miles and wound up at your door

It’s not always rainbows and butterflies
It’s compromise that moves us along
My heart is full and my door’s always open
You can come anytime you want

Wikipedia: To compromise is to make a deal where someone gives up part of, or all of its demand. In arguments, compromise is a concept of finding agreement through communication, through a mutual acceptance of terms—often involving variations from an original goal or desire.

Compromise. A funny thing, isn't it? You've got to be careful with it, too. There are tmes in life when we must compromise- we can't always get what we want. But we can't compromise what we believe is right.

There have been many times where I've stepped down during an argument and apologised for something that I know I haven't done... and it's bullshit. Why should I have let that person win? So now, when I'm being asked to apologise for something that I know I haven't done, I'm not compromising.

Sure, it means that an argument is being prolonged, but this time, the other person needs to realise that they're in the wrong and wise themselves up. They're being quite childish, and I've no time for that. Don't get me wrong, if the person steps down and admits to me that they're accusing me falsely, then my door is open to them.

So it's not rainbows & butterflies at the moment, but I know that I'm not compromising what I believe is right.

text messages, youtube and a big lump of cheese

Of all of the things I carry
And all of the things I know
I know that I will be loved
No matter where I go

 *Warning. Cheese Factor*

Got a nice wee text today telling me that I'm not worth shit. Pleasant, yes? I thought so too. Gotta love "friends". But later on in the evening having felt completely crap all day, my friend Bethany let me listen to a song written by Meghan Tonjes called This Year (definitely worth the listen). So the verse I've written above really caught my attention & I just thought to myself: I'm not worthless. There are people to love me, even if the person who sent me the text doesn't. And no matter where you are, someone in the world loves you.

So don't listen to those scumbags who try to make you feel like shit, you're you. Like, human life is amazing (don't worry, there'll be no God rant here). There have been billions of people living on earth and not one of them has been exactly the same as another. There's an endless amount of DNA combinations (I'm no scientist, so please correct me if i'm wrong), and it completely blows my mind. I love it. 

Don't get me wrong, life can be a complete ball of crap at times, and it melts my head; but there are so many mind-blowing things in the world and there are many good times to be had. Just gotta get out there and enjoy it.

But yes, the point of the blog- nobody's worthless, and nobody has the right to make you feel as if you are.